Mr or Mrs ‘Me Me Me’ – you might not mind listening at first, after all, it saves any awkward silences and trying to think of what to say next, but eventually you’ll realize that this person has an awful lot to say – about themselves! You will always end up eating where they want to eat, watching the movies they want to watch, doing exactly what they want to do and pretty soon you’ll be swallowed up in their self-absorption. You might not notice this type at first as they can be the life and soul of the party.
He’s Hot and He’s Cold – didn’t Katy Perry sing about something like that? Anyway, one minute this dude is all over you, the next minute you just seem to be getting on their nerves and they’re completely preoccupied. You probably won’t know any explanation for their date wandering when you did wrong. You do not want to be in a relationship with someone who is as stable and consistent as a rollercoaster ride, so get out as soon as possible.
Party Animals – okay, we’ve all had our moments, but if this party animal still parties like a teenager when they’re over 40 then that ought to be a warning! Alert, alert, this person still needs to grow up and you’re not his Mom!
Mr or Mrs Negative – some people just ooze with negativity, nothing is right with their lives … their family, their work, the whole world! Okay, so these deep, dark brooding types might be a little bit intriguing at first, but you’ll soon realize that you’re in a cold, dark place of your own. If you want to date someone happy and drama-free, stay away!
Mama’s Boys – or Daddy’s Little Princesses – yep, it works both ways, anyone who has been completely spoiled by their parents is gonna’ expect the same type of treatment from you. Many of these people simply do not know how to function in a normal relationship, they’re always the likelihood that either one or both parents will be lurking far too close in the background for comfort.
Mr or Mrs ‘Let’s Hang Out’ – some successful relationships have started this way I have to say, but that is not the norm. If you’re looking for a serious relationship then you need to be with someone who wants to spend time with you, not someone who just wants to hang out with their buddies to keep up at a distance, nothing serious is likely to happen so guess what … it’s time to ditch the party.
